triggers: Dad died jan 07 husband wanted divorce dec 06 he is keeping the divorce going (instead of a done deal as of mar 5, 2008) He says" in this economy i don't know if i'll have a job to pay the alimony" judge gave him time to submit too nice if you ask me so we go until aug 22 and then i hope i'm divorced (he doesn't think he needs an attorney) i am going thru voc rehab with the state and my boss says i shouldn't be taking advantage for something i don't need (a pda cell phone) my cognitive deficits are around functioning with time and tasks