Hey SS, actually, a friend will be taking this daughter shopping for me in a week or so and hopefully another friend will take my son to his appointment as my day is booked solid and hubby has to take Tuesday off for an MRI, oh yeah, did I forget to tell you he has a pinched nerve somewhere and has numbness pain and tingling in his right arm and hand? He's on pain meds too. Tues I have to get daughter back to surgeon for a recheck and that will be interesting as well. Most of my friends, as I have told you in past, have full plates. Cancer girl has frequent medical visits and is in remission now. Has liver issues but they are stable for now. Other friend has a big business and runs 24x7 and has some naughty young adult children. I do have another friend who would go to either appoint with kids I think so maybe I will give her a call. I feel guilty as she also has her plate full with two live in parents with dementia. But you are absolutely right, I need to spread it around and ask for help. good help. I can't sleep, daughter has crashed for now. Obsessing about cat proofing my daughter's studio and my son's bed room. Stupid I know. Just my mind is racing. I am just frazzled and in need of a new memory chip so I may function more efficiently and keep everything on track. I actually plan on asking my T about my declining ability to keep all trains from derailing as I have been doing it successfully for years. Now I am a major brain fart. Also my body is reacting to something. I had a red blotchy face in the hospital this a.m. for a while. I don't know if I was anxious and didn't know it or was reacting to latex or maybe I suddenly have high blood pressure. guess I will ask to get it checked if that happens again. Weird. i am a rambler my dear. Reminds me of the song. okay, enough, hope you are well. Thanks for your kind thoughts and good wishes.