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"I" value her need for personal time. I'm afraid I'll be a burden to her then she won't be there when I do need her. Hence, I drive myself crazy.

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Me too the wants (or I should say what I THINK others want) always trumps my wants. I am sooo afraid that I will become a burden or in some way demonstrate that I am a total freak. I envision the repercussions being either get kicked out or my chart getting a RED caution sticker on it.

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You've just hit the nail on the head for me!