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I have been way, way, WAY more sexual with my husband since starting therapy

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Well... at least your H is getting something out of your therapy too
A while back my H after realizing that I was still going to therapy made a comment like ... 'Well, I don't see where things have gotten any better.' I said "Hummm...yeah, that's the weird thing about therapy, you have to actually go to have it benefit you."

I don't know from what you describe it doesn't seem that much different from watching a movie with a really hot actor in it. If your T is hot, then he is hot. Also it make sense to me that as you start feeling better about yourself and less negative about your past experiences, that maybe you are just feeling a little less inhibited and more tolerant of allowing yourself to feel erotic. Since he is the onehelping you feel more positive and more open and is the one in the room when these feelings are allowed to surface they get directed towards him.

It seems like your T may be is aware of these feelings and is still willing to get close to you. Doesn't he hold your hands at some point? This doesn't sound like he is going to erect some new 12' proximity boundary because you are finding this attention..simulating.