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letgo said:
He has saved my life on 2 occasions. Since we've been married he has beaten me with his fists, a bat, hammers and a loaded gun.


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Any question that the "life saving" episodes could have been planned to make you feel connected/obligated to him? Just a question. I had a very controlling boyfriend that was physically abusive at one time. He had a way of doing nice things for me or setting up a disaster to rescue me when I didn't want him to. Just a thought.