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Yeah, he holds my hands at the end of session. I like that. THAT doesn't feel erotic/sexual/whatever to me at all....just feels like being cared for. I don't want to lose that.

T can probably handle this, has probably dealt with it before. That's what I keep telling myself, anyway!!!!

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T has held my hands quite a few times.. mostly during the few times I have cried during a session. We have sat like that for 10 minutes or so. We have talked about how it is not sexual and it has to do with physical contact being a benefical way to help ground me-- it also helps me to see that T is not "afraid" of me. It is something that I can "take home" with me, in the way that I try to remember how it feels-- so I can try to ground myself at home, through that connection.