Another one bites the dust to erotic transference. Sigh. lol.

Of course I think you are very brave. But you already knew that.

When I had an ET talk with T awhile back, I too, was afraid he would be scared of me (still am afraid of that), and that's when he took my hands to show me he was not afraid.

I really like that you recognized that eroticism is only ONE PART of what you feel towards him-- and that you left a message so that you can tell him.

I think that is part of what I am trying to figure out. I find that our intimacy and connection exists on these levels:
intellectual
professional
emotional (encompassing a lot of different sub-connections)
creative
playful
anger
caring
love
(and I'm sure there is a lot more)
And then there is the sexual stuff. So I guess I'm trying to figure out how that fits in, where it comes from, how it impacts the other stuff, and how the other stuff impacts that.