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Simcha said:

Did it make you upset that he didn't reciprocate or?


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Of course it did-- that's the whole rejection factor. Cognitively, I know what is ethical, beneficial, appropriate, etc.. But feelings and cognitions rarely match and that's why a lot of us are in therapy-- and that is why T wants me to think about why the validation of my own feelings are so dependent upon his disclosures.