I'm looking for an autobiography I read by a woman who was adopted from Korea. I found it particularly moving because of all that she went through, and the way that she was able to write about it with courage and confidence. I haven't found that one yet, but you might look at these books :

http://www.comeunity.com/adoption/books/0korea.html

I'm still not finding the one I was thinking of, but some of these might be helpful.