Can I call you "Iggy"? I've started thinking of you that way. I hope you don't mind.

I've been giving your post a lot of thought and have come up with some things that might help.

Ya know? Having self-esteem isn't going to give you killer looks, ok? First place to start is to accept your looks, even if YOU don't like them. You are who you are. This gal said you have a pleasant personally. Listen to THAT, take it in, make that compliment YOURS. It's a big part of who YOU are. DON'T listen to the "but". Discard it. Look at yourself in the mirror, smile and say "I have a pleasant personality." That makes you so much easier to be with than killer looks and an arrogant attitude, which most good looking guys have, anyway. Or at least, that's been my experience. Somebody else probably has a different experience than I do. So you see? It's all subjective.

Say to yourself over and over: <font color="red">I HAVE A PLEASEANT PERSONALITY.</font> when you say that.

The more I know you, the more I like you.