I know this might sound strange, but I gave up on getting the "truth". Trying to drag the truth out of someone is just not worth it to me. If he wants to lie he's going to stick to his lie, that's on his conscience, not mine, I'm not going to stress about it. I just give him a look and say "whatever" or "yeah right", and he knows that I think he's lieing, if he wants to come clean he will, starting a fight over it will just stresses me out and I still won't get the truth.

I guess the subject matter holds a lot of importance, if it's worth trying to get the truth out or not. With what I experience with my husband it's not a priority to drag the truth out (I think sometimes I don't want to know what the truth is lol). He believes his lies are the truth, he's been trained to do that, so I have a losing battle anyway.