I have always had that issue with blaming parents for my current state of mind. I mean if they had raised me correctly or if they had thought about parenting before conception then maybe they could have raised a better child. Maybe I would have had a better selection of decision to choose from. I mean, when I say thought about raising kids, really sitting down and planning the life of that child or least discussing what they feel about raising children in a calm way.
This world is so confusing as it is, and to do things so spontaneously or naturally as nature would have it is some what unrealistic.
I think that we make mistakes but if you are of a responsible nature and have the ability to try and take chance at debating the point of parenting then at least put it out there in the atmosphere that you want to at least be that kind of parent.
See, it wasn't until I got up in age that I realized that things could have been different.