I understand where your coming from. Trusting somebody in a short period of time or even if the both of you has just recently met is not that easy. Me as a clinical psychology grad oftentimes feel that to some of my patients. I feel like that sometimes they dont want to give their trust on me and I respect them on that. But see? We cannot resolve the issue if we will give-in. Its just a matter of give and take. And the T? They are just there to do their job.That is to help us out.