Hi inkblot

You no my situation in some ways is not so differant from your own. I can say this. Your post is lacking key points of information. I wonder how he got the kidds to start with because in most civil desputs the children end up with the mom.

I hope you can just keep your cool and show them love. Its hard when you have an ex who is dificult but for the kidds you need to be strong.
If you consistantly show your kidds how much your there for them and how much you love them, you will know you've done your best.
I know how hard it is hon and I feel for you.
Stand tall and be strong!

Jacqui