So sorry for what you are going through AuburnGirl. I too am going through another divorce so I can understand what you may be feeling.

Working through the emotions of divorce is quite painful on so many different levels. We are literally grieving the loss of our partner, our marriage, our hopes and our dreams. Having said that, I can also say that there will be times of great hurt, anger and even love still....but you can make it through if you realize that you have to give yourself permission to feel all those things during the process.

Sometimes life isn't fair.....people are not fair...situations are not fair. I believe the best thing we can do for ourselves is to take care of No. 1 as best we can. Know that in time, things will hurt less, tears will be shed less. Even if we don't have all the answers to our questions of the why's and how's....we can still move forward and heal. Doing our best to keep our eyes on the future and not the past will help a lot too.

I wish you well and hope that you can find your way through the pain as easily as possible.


sabby