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I want to tell him about a sexual experience that I had with my husband. I think it is significant because while it was enjoyable, I couldn't get that "connection" part of it. Like it was purely physical and nothing deeper than that.

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Sometimes sex is just sex and doesn't have to be more than that. Everyone is a physical being and it might be a good thing if you and your H can just have sex for the satisfaction of it.

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I need to tell him that I SI'ed past the limit that we made the deal on (I had a really difficult week with some slip-ups). I will tell him this in the beginning of the session, in case he needs to kick me out. If that happens, I guess all of the aforementioned stuff will be null and void.

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What was the agreement? I seem to remember something about you not having your Saturday sessions if you SIed past the limit. While I know it would be really hard to not have the session, it might be a good thing. I think you may need to have your T show you he is standing up to the boundaries he's set for the two of you. And all the stuff you want to talk about won't be null and void, your relationship with T won't be over, you'll just have to talk to T about it all the following session....I know much easier for me to say than to live it, but I think this might be a great growth opportunitiy for you. You'll see that someone is following through on the consequences that they set. Sorry if I'm offbase here.