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there was a bit more ambiguity in the "deal" than just a specific number. As I said, it has more to do with what I am doing in terms of trying to connect, rather than the amount.

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I'm not trying to be confrontational; I'm figuring out how to manage my self-harm as well. But if you agree that if you go over X number you won't get your session, and then you do get your session, then what's the point of setting a number at all? If it's about how you are trying to connect, then why not measure that, instead?