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I need to tell him that I SI'ed past the limit that we made the deal on (I had a really difficult week with some slip-ups). I will tell him this in the beginning of the session, in case he needs to kick me out. If that happens, I guess all of the aforementioned stuff will be null and void.

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Yes pink i have read your posts, and you yourself said it here. I was interested when you posted about this SI contract a while back because I wondered if he would follow through with his stated boundaries. Sadly, he didn't. How is it helpful to you to have such a contract in place? If the number was not significant than what was the point in the limit?

I had a similar contract with my T and she followed through with the consequences. I know it was hard for her, but she did it for my own good. After all the contract was something we both agreed on to help me. I was angry, and I was testing her. I didn't believe she would actually do what she said she would. She cared enough about me to follow through. It was a turning point for me. I haven't SI'd in 17 years.

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He's very good.

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I have to disagree. I don't know your T but for what you write, but if you are accurately portraying him in your posts, he seems quite unprofessional.