To worry is just away of showing our loved ones we care for them and that we want the best for them at all times. You are a strong person and to let others help you, will be hard as well, if you are custom doing things yourself. It's ok to feel weak and strong at the sametime, so don't think you're a hypocrite, it's normal to try to help others by saying things will be ok, we all do that at some point.

Take care of yourself, and your bf and don't worry about what others my say.