I have appointments with 2 therapists this week, one on Monday (the one I think I'll go with) and Tuesday with another in case the first one doesn't pan out. I'm going to see both of them so I can get an idea of differences.

I agree that how comfortable I feel with them will be the most important thing. I don't know if I should be concerned that the one I'm most interested in only has 3 years in practice.

I did ask them some questions when they called me to set up appointments:

*How many years in practice? (3+ yrs / 20+ yrs)

*Have you counseled many people with my diagnoses? (DID, BPD, PTSD) (yes)

*When was the last time you worked with someone with my diagnoses? (currently treating)

*I like structure - can we come with goals and assignments to keep me on track? (yes)

*Can I bring in art work, projects, photos, writing? (yes)

*Are you available outside of session? (yes)

*Do you have someone to cover for you when you are not available (vacation)? (yes for the first, not sure about the second - forgot to ask)

*Is your office a safe place to explore my feelings? (most definitely)

*Will we be using DBT skills? (yes)

*What's your fee? ($40 for 50 minutes / $75 for 90 minutes w/out insurance; they will both be on my insurance plan within a few months, then I'll have to pay 20% of the allowed amount)

Is there anything else I should ask them in the initial interview to get a good feel for them?