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No, I'm sorry friends, my T has been to hell and back with me. He is the expert. He is the big cheese and he is very experienced. I'm sure that it is not that he does not know what to do next. It does seem that everyone here likes to blame the T for everything here, please don't be offended with me saying that.

Having thought about this a lot, what he is saying is that I will not be having therapy when I'm 93, that there will come a time when this will all end. I do know a lot and can more or less cope, although I did hope that there was more to life than just coping.

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Are you saying to us now that you think that his threat of termination wasn't really a threat to terminate, but rather a distorted thought that you had when you thought of the fear you have of ending therapy?

I really would like to know, because it seems you've made a full circle. You need to be clear with your T in the future that he needs to be direct, that way you don't make huge leaps and assumptions. It's a REALLY big difference if someone says to you "I don't think you'll need therapy when your 93" to "I'M TERMINATING THERAPY WITH YOU SOON" don't you think?
What did I miss here?

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Umm... yeah, sorry but I did say that I am a very damaged person and that this is a very emotional issue for me. Just discussing it brings up the very worse case scenarios for me. My emotional self can only see doom and gloom with this. My adult self can see that therapy will need to end but can see it will be done nicely - ie. with sessions being spaced out etc. Sorry I asked for support on this!