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_Sky said:
Another way is to find the good in them and dwell on those things, rather than finding all their faults.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I have to agree with this, and really, my desire to have my T be better with phones is a minor "complaint." (I don't even like talking on the phone to people, so I don't really desire significant phone contact with him.) He is so great in session, so attuned, and has helped me so much, that the phone thing is a small blip in our relationship, and something I would never make an issue of or drop him because of this or say "he's a bad T" because of this. I tend to just shrug that off and even smile and roll my eyes, and think fondly, "typical" for my techno-phobic, somewhat disorganized and absent-minded T.

So, good advice, Sky!