You know I al really rethinking this getting back together thing.... I go back and forth, I am a perfectionist and obviously want to do the right thing for me and my daughter.... What I can't do is rehash old issues with him over and over again and somehow I feel that i what I will exactly be doing.... I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt and wait until he gets here but I refuse to rehash old crap with him. I'm tired and I've said all I had to say about the old issues... If he is willing to disucuss them in therapy yes I will do that, but I wil not conceded my boundaries...I will not support him at all...I refuse...I support his daughter and that is all I can do....

I spoke to him yesterday and he said I have never really supported him, and perhaps he is right because I always thought that his way was the wrong way....now some of that could have been by bipolar getting in the way... That said, I am more than willing to work on that but I won't financially support him, not one bit! I'm done with that kind of relationship....it is my turn...time for someone to support me...and if that isn't going to happen then he can hit the road...

TJ :rheart: