You are not being unfair at all. What you explained would definitely hurt for me if I were in your position.

I'm sorry about the lack of thoughtfulness shown by your family.

I'm happy to read you were so kind and thoughtful all this time. Kinda just confirms you're a nice person like we all suspected here.

Ok! Renevations of the new home!!! Photos of the in progress please if you can.

Let us see the before and after of your work Please??