Wants2fly,thank you for posting (and to the others too).I'm sorry for those having unexplained difficulties with their friends.It's very hard to understand,when we have tried our hardest to be a good friend,not been perfect but not done anything to deserve the treatment we are receiving.

I am probably stupid,naive but I am choosing to believe that my friend did behave the way she did through illness (although there are times when I doubt it and get angry at the way she has behaved towards me).If I ,now and again wish to send a short message saying that I am thinking of her ,what harm does that do? (maybe a little to me as it upsets me to think of how things were),but if I have decided that it is worthwhile-to leave that door open,then ,on balance,I will do so.Occasionally one hears of friendships long thought lost,that are revived.For that to happen,someone must have been the one to get in touch or attempt to maintain contact.