So I just recently got out of a six year relationship with my daughters father. The relationship was an extreme.y unhealthy one, as he was very abusive and controlling. After we split he left with about 600$ of my money he was supposed to pay the bills with leaving me with no car insurance and a high shut off notice from the electric company. He refuses to have any contact with me or my daughter, as well as not paying any child support either. I have to work 7 days a week to catch up on bills because he did all of this. My daughter stays up all night most nights crying for her dad and I don't know what to do for her, she is only 4. I know I did the right thing getting out of a relationship with a man who has these capabilities, but as for consoling my daughter I have no idea what to do for her. My anxiety is through the roof. And honestly at this point if he did contact us I don't know how civil I could be toward him.