as far as your daughter goes, reassure her as best you can that her daddy still loves her and it is not her fault that he is not there. and look into child support enforcement services in your area. they can help to track him down and make him pay support. if he does contact you, as long as he is not abusive, you need to do your best to be civil in front of your daughter. children tend to think things are their fault. hopes this helps some, i know it is hard, but your daughters well being needs to be your first priority.

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