Thank you wisewoman. This isn't the focus of my tx often as there are more pressing matter usually. So for me to post this (some part of me) was strange for even me.

Thank you for helping me to see it is a reclamation of power and my life.

I'm only doin' good because I have an incredible array of support here with such good diverse opinions. Couldn't be doing this w/o the help of y'all.