I have a cousin who is a cross dresser/transvestite, he is on his second marriage his second wife knew about his cross dressing BEFORE she married him but he was happy to do it just in the house out of sight of the children and they have plodded along like this for some years.

Recently his wife left him taking with her their children as he has started to demand that he be allowed to dress as and when he wants and go out as well, she is not happy with this and has offered him an ultimatum, he has hit the ball back in her court by offering his own.

So its not just about how he is 'today' but how he will be in a few years, as it can be very frustrating for him as he gets older and like my cousin more adventurous.

I am not saying who is right or who is wrong out the the two of them as its none of my buisness. However there are now children in this situation and its getting very upsetting for them, they are confused and upset at not living with daddy but mummy cant cope with how daddy is, its all very very sad.