I'm going through this right now (finding a new T). I looked in the phone book to see if anyone listed my issues as a specialty, which they did. Then a friend and I, over the phone, did some searching on the internet. It took a little while but I found a couple T who sounded like they could be a good match. I was able to email both of them and ask if they could help me deal with all the issues (diagnoses) I have. I didn't want to waste time with an appointment if they couldn't help me from the get go.

I'm still afraid of being labeled a freak. I have my 3rd appointment in a weeks time with a third T. I feel crazy for having all these appointments (and disloyal somehow too - not sure what that's about) but I'm not going to just take the next person who walks through the door. I want to feel comfortable with my T, like I can really do some productive, progressive work with them.

Anyway, try the phone book and internet. Psychology Today has a website that lists some T.

Like a kind friend did for me, I will pray for you, that you will find a good match. Good luck.