Moonkin, if you lose this T because you need to discuss this natural occurrence from a strong therapy relationship, then it will be her who isn't handling it right, not you.

I think you must know she can't reciprocate this "love" you feel for her. That's really a good thing for you.

You can continue to know it's there, your feelings, but need to continue to counter the thoughts rather than feed them.

If you do need to open it up and discuss it as a therapeutic issue in session, then try and say just that: "I feel like I need to discuss this and work through it in session."

It's better to work through it with the T, actually, because then you will be able to develop an even stronger and better therapeutic relationship that will aid in your future healing. Good wishes on your decision.