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However, what I learned about ME is that I nag and badger as a way of alleviating MY anxiety.

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Hi Lmo,

Such a good point, and brave of you to take ownership of that.

It is such a gift, when we realise that we have been making things harder for other people. I used to lose my temper with others as a way of reducing my own anxiety (that was a very long time ago, thankfully). Now I face anxiety head on, as my issue, not anyone elses. As you might guess, all my relationships have settled down nicely since I learned that one lesson.

Cheers, Myzen.