Im an introvert too, so outside of the family I hardly have much friends. I have one that is very dear to me, and a few others that I like very much. But we don't hang out much, insteadwe pay each other some attention when we can We have been discussing between us many times the problem of staying in touch, and we have all agreed that we want to stay in touch. So when we can, we try to meet. Otherwise we keep in touch, so we know what is going on with the other one. And if we need attention, we scream: look at me now, I need you now! And then there is usually plenty of respons. But, we have to ask for it. This is omething we have been talking over, so no one feels bad about doing it, at the same time as we know that even though we haven't heard from the other person in a while, they will contact you at some point... they are just too buy at the moment.

It is sometimes frustrating, but most of the time its less stressing than having a lot of friends that needs attention all the time I'm bad in sharing my attention, ince I am a quiet and peaceful person that need personal space. But if anyone needs me, I'm there 100%, and I am glad to help.

Do you have a friends you can do the bathroom together with? Many people actually like to help with these kind of things, and it's always more motivating when it's two persons.

Instead of focusing so much about everything you should do, focus on one thing, that doesn't seem so bd, and just concentrate about getting that done. Haveing too many tasks hanging over your head might slow you down instead of speed you up.

Your boxes wont run away, at least you have SOMETHING you can do if you feel bored one day then... If you do everything at once, there is nothing up ahead to look forward to getting done with

Good luck.

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