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pachyderm said:
Although I introduced this topic in a joking way, I am also serious about it. I need more suggestions on the right way to handle the "problem".

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Pachy, I don't know that you want to "care" so much about what your T is doing. You can use any behavior at all from them, whether you like it or not; going to T is to get better at listening to yourself. You have to live with you, not T. How would you train yourself better?