Angel_of_ the_Past;

I like that name you have. I know how you feel. It is a tough world that we live in and "only the strong survive" is the words some live by. It is going to be tough to live with a soft heart and it is a nice way to be but, the reality is, in time you will get tougher or, you will be taken advantage of by people that seek advantage. I know this is not what you want to hear, but just the same it is true.

Perhaps you need to read some books on assertiveness or on relationships in general.

Good luck to you.