I too agree with bebop, it sounds like you need to start packing.

I know how hard it is to move, to change. You've become comfortable in your living arrangement. You hope that someone tells you to hang in there and that everything will be okay. But from what I read, you guys are oil and water. It sounds like he's a good friend at best. Maybe you like him and he's nice, but it doesn't sound like he's a good mate/match for you.

Good luck and I hope everything works out for all of you.