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I am just wondering why he needed to create a special account just for you? Couldn't he just have you send your emails to his regular account like all his other clients? I am also a writer/poet, and I share with my T my posts on here, poems, etc. But I have a blog he can read anytime or I bring in things for him to read. But I don't require a direct contact with him to share my things.

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My T actually never did emails with clients before.... so he created an account so that I can email him cause I asked.

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I could be wrong, but has your erotic tranference weakened or become more stronger in the last few months? It could be with the result of your T 's actions or not.

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It actually decreased and then increased. I believe that one of the reasons I felt the increase is because of all of the additional connections/intimacies that I share with him-- so when those increase, sexual feelings increase because that has always been what is natural for me. As I analyze the feelings with him, I am beginning to learn that the strength of all of those other connections can exsist separate from a sexual component. However, certain connections can become sexually charged in any relationship-- a deep intellectual connection, for example.

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If I had a client who I knew has erotic tranference, I would really hesitate to hold their hands for longer than a handshake, because those, like hugs can be confusing to the relationship.

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I don't disagree with you-- but again, it is specific to the individual relationship. For me, it is perfectly fine. For someone else, it might be confusing and damaging. For me, a hug would be confusing and damaging. Holding hands is not.

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I am sorry if I am upsetting you, I really am trying to respect your feelings, I do care and worry about you. I don't want to see you become hurt like so many people I know. I truly hope you are right about your T, and I hope he keeps his boundaries with you. But as you know people are not perfect, especially T's, and things can happen. That is all I really want to say, be careful please.

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Thank you for expressing your reasons for your comments. I appreciate that. I have been with my T for three years now. Not ONE TIME have I never felt unsafe, strange (aside from the usual, but that's just personal, lol), or weirded out by ANYTHING he has done. He is honest, genuine, a real %#@&#! sometimes, but also very careful.