Angel,
I barely know you, but you seem like a very intelligent, sensitive, all-around nifty chick.

I'd be happy to listen to you whenever you want. I had an experience once that seemed like rape, and really screwed me up for a long time, but it probably doesn't hold a candle to what most have been through. I can listen, and you can bounce ideas off me as much as you like. I'll do my best to help.
Violet