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Okay, what if the client, like Pink, who has an intense erotic transference for their T, decided to go for it and jump in the T's lap or something. Is the T suppose to just let them do it, or should their be some boundaries against doing that?

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I actually laughed out loud when I saw this-- not at you, but at the fact that I often have these funny fantasies that I walk into therapy and just into his lap. A) I would NEVER do such a thing because I respect boundaries both as a therapist and as a patient. B) T would freak the %#@&#! out because it has been made very clear what is safe, and where the relationship CANNOT go.

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Maybe Pink's T trust that that won't happen and Pink's trusts her T won't cross that line.

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Definitely.
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But it can happen, it happens more than we know, most of this stuff doesn't get reported. I think it is good to be aware that some of this stuff can get kinda muddled in therapy.

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And definitely, again. I totally agree with that. It makes me sick to know that the very people we are supposed to trust to help heal our wounds, are causing further victimization and trauma.