I used to have a simlar problem with my mum, I spoke to my cousin about it as her mum is the same but she wont put up with it, my cousin said .......

Do as you please and let her sulk, if you speak to her talk about other things if she brings it up say, mum I this is the way I feel I am sorry you are having a hard time coping with that but thats the way it is, she will sulk again like a child just let her she will get over it.

I did it and it got better each time now a few years down the line my mum says oh you will do what you want any way ! And actualy likes it in a weird way, however she still behaves that way with my siblings lmao.