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Old Jul 31, 2008, 12:40 PM
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jbug said:
she helped me gather the strength to confront my mom about it.

Well I did today and now I'm getting the repercussions of it. My mom is acting like a wounded child. I feel bad because I feel guilty for making her feel bad.

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Hi Jbug, yeah, all of this is part of the process of putting up that boundary. You didn't make her feel bad. She chose to react this way. What you did was healthy.
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