has being bipolar ruined your relationship? i have been with my husband for 7 years. i asked him for a divorce in march of this year. he is controlling and i got tired of it. he wanted us to go to counseling, i did not agree to it. he is going to counseling on his own nd has moved out the house. though lately i have been feeling like i want to work it out. i usually make decisions out of the blue. i mean i wake up and decide something and thats that. i don't give it a second thought. i am curious to know if anyone here experiences the same thing, making rash decisions because of how you feel at the moment.