Hi,
Don't you think that almost 17 is almost an adult? My husband thinks his kids are so grown up that they can make their own decisions and choices. They were here first and are definately most important to him, but now that we are married, I hope I count as something?? My husband is very good to me and does alot of nice things for me too. Unfortunately, it is when his kids are not around and maybe that is part of the problem. I know they will always be first and most important to him, but I wish he would not have to make it so obvious all the time. I will get past this somehow because I love my husband too much to let this get in our way. Thanks for your response, I appreciate it.