((((((((((vetswife))))))))))

you DO matter, and its NOT all about him, or at least it shouldn't be. you take care of him, you take care of his children, and i don't know the situation but am relatively sure that without you he would be much worse off than he is. he should realize this and treat you with at least some respect for the fact that you continue to stand by him even when he is a jerk. jmho

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