My experience is that I am a kid from those situations, so i don't have quite the same... what's the word... need? but have also looked for something similar... i'm not married so that I don't get back into IPA like my boyfriends have provided. I have been single for 12 years or something just for that reason.
Hope you find what you need - here or somewhere. And if you do find resources, can you post them?
Kiya