((Kiya))

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I need to hang on to the me that copes ok when T is around?

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Yeah, that sounds about right!

Ideas:

I think you should paint a picture of all that you described in your post: T, her office bldg., her car in the lot and you in the picture.

I think you should journal.

What else have you done in the past?

Peace
xoxo