I have felt bad reading all of these posts. On one side, there is a lot of love and support. I am on that side. It's not my place, I think, to judge or criticize anyone. Plus, there is a "Relationships" forum at this mental health site, so we are all freely able to post and discuss our relationship issues. I think the topic is right "in there". If there is a forum on that topic, the subject of relationships should be fine. Well, that's my opinion.