Not sure about mimicking, but modeling good behavior... I think part of my point, which you helped make, is that those who are unwell mentally don't always get your point, and tend to demand better behavior from others in public than what they show you even in private. I guess in the non-mental health support world it's considered hypocrisy, however in this realm here it's disordered behavior. Whether everyone is doing their best is not up to me to determine, but to think everyone is, well, that's a stretch. It is a good thought though, unrealistic, but good.