For a while you live hour to hour or day to day...and try to keep the negative thoughts out. Once you can do that, then try to insert positive thoughts, like it must not have supposed to be, there must be someone better for me that I will find... or even find the negative that was with the old bf and realize he wasn't perfect. How can he be perfect for you anyway, he couldn't even stick with you and support you? You wouldn't have wanted to be treated that way once married either would you!

I know it's tough. It happens all the time. You can get through this.