Wants2Fly, this was such an insightful thread.

I didn't respond sooner because I wasn't in a very good mood.

I've accepted what's happened with the girl next door and at least it finally stopped my nearly two years of wondering about her.

She now assumes that I'm the only one who's going to feed "her" stray cat because I keep doing it. She'll have to do it herself from now on.

All I can say about her is TOO BAD, BEEOTCH!